9. Be a good observer
Ask “what”, “how” and “why” questions. They help you understand a lady better. If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be Realistic
Ok; Finally, be yourself. She would be so disappointed fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? So play real games with her, you are encouraging a to be real also.