It’s never about outward beauty but it’s all about the beauty of the mind and even a man who have sworn to date or marry a super curvy chic will melt if he comes across a humble, submissive, non abusive straight shaped lady with a quality of a real virtuous wife.
Guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind to marry a humble respectful ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued seci symbol as a wife but would rather have and dump such.
Hope this helps