Marriage is about transparency and open communication, but there are some things you should not tell your hubby. You read that right. Some secrets should be in your heart forever. This would actually help to increase your love and strengthen your relationship. Read ahead to know some things you should not tell your husband.
1. About your ex
Do not tell your husband that your ex boyfriend would have done something better. Do not mention about your feelings you had for your ex. This could be the turning point in your relationship. If you compare your hubby to your ex in an argument, chances are it may hurt him a lot. So, don’t get your past in your present.
2. About your discontent
Don’t tell your spouse “you never ever do it right”. This statement is simple, but the meaning is too deep. If you tell this, you are indirectly affecting his morale. You are making him weak emotionally. Instead, you must be affirmative at all times. If need be, tell him indirectly about his behavior. Direct taunting also affects your relationship.
3. About his friends
Talking about his friends all the time could also be a sensitive thing. When you talk against his friends, it would directly affect him. It is possible that he would feel bad. If you need to say something about his friends, then tell him in a pleasant manner.
4. About his family
Do not compare your spouse to his mother or father even in the worst argument. There is no need to involve his parents in your personal arguments. If you do so, then it would definitely affect him badly. This is like a turn off in a relationship. There has to be some respect from your end.
5. About his weakness
Do not ever tell your husband that it is because of his weakness, things mess up in life. You are directly attacking your husband on his habits and behavior. He wouldn’t really be pleased to hear these harsh sentences from you. In a way, you are blaming your hubby for things in life. So, it is like pointing out his negative qualities. Be good to him and do not personally attack him on things as it would hurt him a lot.
6. About parenting
Your hubby would not like to how to parent your kids. If you tell him to do things in the right way or you shout at him before your kids, it would naturally hurt him. Do not tell him that he is not responsible enough to handle kids. No man would ever like to hear such a thing. If things are not right, then have a patient approach. Tell him in a loving way, that he needs to learn things.
7. About his lost love
Do not tell your husband that he does not love you anymore. This is going to hurt him. This would also create a rift in your relationship. If you feel the need for his love, then tell him directly but in a good way. Tell him that you really miss the days when you used to spend good time with him. This is a better way to handle the situation.