Many of Nigerian girls don’t even suspect that they are side chicks. But t some of them know their real role, but agree to continue such unhealthy relationships.
So here are 8 main reasons on why Nigerian girls prefer to be number 2.. or even less:
1. Just to show it off
Some Nigerian women prefer to have some relationships just to belong to the crowd. Maybe they saw boyfriends of their friends and wanted the same. So they agree to become a mistress even if they know that a guy is in serious relationships. They keep a guy around only to drain some material things from him.
2. Fear of loneliness
Many girls can agree for less, just not to feel themselves lonely. So to escape it they will date even a guy with a wife. Actually they can jump at any guy who will come their way.
3. Too much emotions
It happens because girls love guy too much to let him go. Even if he already has a girlfriend. Such obsession can force her to become a side chick.
4. Pressure
Some families insist their kids to bring a man and to get married. So some girls are forced to look for a man everywhere and at any costs.
5. Desire
Some girl are becoming side chicks just for fun. She probably find interesting the idea of playing with a guy. Some Nigerian girls think that it is cool to sneak around with a guy who dates with another woman.
6. They want attention
Some Nigerian girls agree to be another chick because they adore being special. If a guy pamper them and make them feel desired, they don’t care whether he has a girlfriend.
7. She thinks that she is not good enough
Guy can tell her that she is not good enough to be his girlfriend. But she can be his side chick. A poor thing agrees because she thinks that this is an only variant and starts to think that she is miserable.
8. Hope
Some Nigerian girls hope and believe that one day the would become official girlfriends or even wives. So she will agree to be on the second place, but she will do her best to win his heart permanently.
Conclusion:
Being a side chick is not a proud role for a good Nigerian girl. You should not want to get this title. Of course sometimes things not go as planned. But you should define on what you want from relationship and never settle for less.
