We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she’s so crazy in love with me too. she’s such a wonderful lady I’ve ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship.
Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn’t talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she’s all mine.
So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she’s still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I’m no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him.
So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn’t blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no…dat thats why she couldn’t keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was “did you really did abortion?” she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book…I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa’s pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he’s the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat….she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why….but she kept saying she didn’t know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I’m not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I’ve forgive her.
Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?…I’m confused because I’m still in luv with her I can’t just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE?
