Written by Tunde korede(Sirtondy)
In the first episode of this article we’ve already discussed the effects of having Se.x before marriage. Today I will let you know ”How you can overcome fornication/Se.x before marriage”
How can we overcome fornication!
1. Having a strong determination against Se.x:- You must have it in mind that ”No” I’m not going to have Se.x before I get married. The bible says With determination you shall see the glory of the lord. Even when pedophile or philanderer tells you that he wanna have Se.x with you, you must resist that person and make up your mind not to have Se.x with anybody until your wedding day.
2.Be careful of your thought:- Don’t even ever try to think about Se.x when you’re still young and you’re not in your matrimonial home. When you keep thinking about Se.x there’s no way you won’t get horny, so, you would be vulnerable to Se.x.
3. Be careful of what your eyes capture within your environment:- some people have cultivated the habit of starring at every girl Boo.bs and Buttocks. Must you stare at all things you see? Brethren, when you stare at someone, The hormone in you will stimulate a passionate feelings of having Se.x with the person you’re staring at(Mattew 5:28) If your eyes can stops you from getting to the kingdom of God, please gouge it out and throw it away. Stop watching ponography, it leads to various Se.x scandals.
4. Don’t make provision for Se.x:- Innumerable ladies of nowadays make provision for we men to have Se.x with them. Some will entice men by showing half of their Boo.bs, some will put on very short skirts and trousers. It is written in the book of deuteronomy 20:5 that Women musn’t put on men clothing. In this case it is not biblical for women to put on anythings Trouser, either niker or leggings. You don’t have to dress Half naked because you want to look good(Timothy 2:9). When you expose everything, this will make men defile you or have passionate feelings of having Se.x with you.
5. Do not be a friend with Prostitute:- If you personally know that this girl/guy have had a Se.x with someone, not even one but many people. Don’t associate with that kind of person because he/she will currupt you(1 Corinthians 6:16). Examine yourself everyday so that you might not fall and don’t associate with those who dosen’t know the deep mystery of the word of God.
6. Submit your body under the leadership of Holy-spirit:- don’t plan for God, Let him plan for you. Don’t say because Mr A is very handsome, I must marry him. Don’t say Mr B is not as handsome as that of Mr A who God chooses for you. So, because of this you won’t choose the person the Lord says you should marry in Future. Just do as he says. Marry that Mr B if he’s the one he says you should marry. Just submit your life to christ he can’t lead you to wrong way.
Please, keep yourself for your future wife/husband. Don’t spoil the company before you get married. Don’t let anyone destroy your future with just a few minute enjoyment. Keep everything,it is for your own good
I’m Sirtondy, NaijaOlofofo Editor.