Nigerian fashion stylist and entrepreneur, Toyin Lawani talks about how her friend influenced her divorced with her husband and how people mocked her for having two kids from different dads . Gistvic Reports.
Toyin said her friend sent her a message which she still have mocking her that she was in an abusive relationship & showing off that she had a better husband which made her take her kids and walked away from the relationship but didn’t know till later that her friend’s husband beat her everyday and faked the riches she had.
Toyin said she had her 1st kid when she was 23years old and got married at age 19.
She wrote:
“When U are Different The world will hate on u for no Reason , when they don’t understand ur life choices or theories they will castigate u & everything u stand for , The women that go through the most in life Are single moms , They are Blamed for their choice of not being married or in a mans house, they take care of their kids day in day out pushing them to greater heights without uttering any complain&still let the fathers play their Role in the child’s life ,they struggle day in day out to Give D people ard them joy&happiness, even plus how hard they work ,so when you want to blame a woman for being single or having kids with two different men , think twice cause it can happen to anybody, either by death or by pain , Atimes we don’t choice our situations ,Atimes our situation choose us , A long time ago a friend sent me a msg which I still hv , mocking me that I was in an abusive relationship & showing off to me that she had a better husband than me , I took my kids&walked away from the relationship, said nothing to the public & focused on my biz&kids ,till date ,little did we know that the husband beat her up everyday&she faked all her riches ,Now today my baby daddy Helps with my sons bills&act like a better dad, why I’m I saying this ?All that glitters are not gold ,Atimes we make future decisions for our kids ,by not fighting a bad situation with a bad situation, for the sake of our kids,cause the truth is the internet never forgets ,they will grow up&read all y’all silly negative write ups on their dads, two wrongs don’t make a right &hate can’t birth happiness ,when people mock me that I have two kids from different dads i laugh so hard cause my dear it will be your bestie,your friend , your sister, your mother ,your aunty 2mrw, just make sure that they have their second baby with the ist father of their child ok I had my ist kid when I was 23years old , I got married when I was 19years old , there are many things y’all don’t know about me , I have been through hell& back with no complains or pity party ,so if U want to judge my life choices make sure u are perfect ist”
