He Dodges the “Where Is This Relationship Going?” Conversation
Frustrated with his behavior, you’ll start asking him questions like, “What is happening here?” In my experience, a guy that’s truly into you is very approachable when it comes to asking a difficult question. The uncomfortable man who is not ready for a relationship avoids the subject at all costs, fails to communicate his feelings, and gives his sob story of why “he’s not ready” and how he’d prefer to just take it one day at a time.
Usually at this point you have already fallen head over heels and spent most of your time hoping and wishing he’ll change his mind. Having the conversation is never complicated with the right guy, so speak up and let this guy go if it’s clear he doesn’t want to stick around.
His Follow Up is Inconsistent
When you first meet your new man, you found him interesting, exciting and easy to talk to. You always have a lot of fun in his company, but you’re not fully sure where you stand with him. His follow up between dates is inconsistent, yet he constantly implies he’d really like to see you again. He won’t give you an exact time or date, but as soon as he knows he’ll get back to you. He plans dates at the last minute, closer to bedtime, typically on a weekday, but you’re never considered his Saturday night girl. He doesn’t always know when he is free because, you know, he’s just “so busy at work”.
Look, the man who is into always prioritizes seeing you, even if your schedule is not fantastic, he happily makes the effort to find a solution. The man who just wants s*x makes his plans at the last minute and never follows up consistently. He also knows that you’re very into him and therefore accepting of his behavior, so he works that to his advantage and stays with what’s comfortable for him.
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