According to a man who took to nairaland forum to share this…
My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.
When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn’t really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.
Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.
Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.
Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:
Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!
The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don’t know if I can believe and trust her again.
She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.
The issue here is that I don’t know how can I trust her again?